Eve Teasing: Give a Slap

WHAT, WHEN AND HOW OF EVE TEASING

What

·         Synonym for Euphemism

·         Most common phenomenon in India

·         Harassment of fairer sex

How

·         Sexual remarks

·         Brushing in public places

When

·         Girls are not dressed conservatively

·         No, even when they are fully dressed

·         Temptation that can’t be resisted

Where

·         Anywhere instead everywhere

Why

·         Guys’ mom didn’t tell them not to talk with strangers

·         Temptation exceeds  Sanity

·         They think this can’t happen with the ladies in their life (sisters/mothers/wives etc.)

This happens with most of our friends, I talked to some of them and they shared their experience and their learning:

Friend  A

·         While I was dressed in  Salwar Kameez and a guy kept asking my name .He told me  that I looked so beautiful in that outfit and he wants to be my friend .But I was adamant that I won’t  talk to strangers. He stalked me till the platform but thankfully not in the same train.

Lesson Learnt-

1.  Never stay away from crowd, you can scream for help.

2.  Don’t show you are afraid, just be firm and bold

3.  Look for police nearby and walk down till the post

Friend  B

·         This happened in CP while walking out of Central Place.

I was walking out of the Central Park with my friend when I casually smiled at a stranger: P Ofcourse my mistake for that initiative and he couldn’t stop himself from breaking the ice. He started following us in whatever direction we tried to move. That was already a knock on my head that why I smiled first K Anyways finally he asked me if I belong to ***** college and I blunted NO. To my horror, even the on-lookers were supporting that guy and said he has tried so much to talk to us ,so how does it matters if I was not in the same college .

Lesson Learnt

1.  Never SMILE for Strangers 2

2.  Keep Some Weapon for Self Defense

There are several  more stories where Gals faced abuse, stalking etc. Being a responsible Fuccha, we should give a tight Slap to such junta and make them realize that you too have your mom and sister at home. So better respect women and give a kick on the bumps of Sexism.

COURTESY: Shruti Verma

www.fuccha.com

Dirts of Society

It is one of the worst experience of my life....it was the time when i was just in 6th standard...there was a narrow lane which i use to cover to rach home..once i was coming from school.... i was passing through that narrow lane and suddenly a man near about 25-30 came in frond of me and just for a few seconds he stopped his byke in front of me.. i was scared like hell and didnt knew what to do.. and just in a flick of secong he pressed me with all his power and as i shouted cause of pain he ran away...i was sooo scared that for few days i was not able to attend school...i stopped passing through that lane....but that day i actually came to know that I AM A GIRL..AND MY SERVIVAL IS NOT THAT EASY IN THIS SOCIETY...I HAVE TO FIGHT FOR SERVIVAL...FIGHT WITH THESE DIRTS OF THE SOCIETY...

Anonymous

Respect Women

It was around 7 P.M and was about the end of my final Year when I was sitting with one of my Friend at DU metro station. A gal was standing there , She was waiting for the bus. We saw some boys were coming to the bus stand. They were abusing each other and were laughing as if it’s a matter of pride.

They stood near to the gal and passed few lewd comments. She ignored once but it seemed as it was the motivation factor for them and they started passing more lewd remarks. I know those who are Delhiites must have seen such activities in or around their society.
We felt really bad and were thinking as how to help that gal and suddenly I realized that I saw a PCR near on the road next to us. We moved their and told the Cops about the Incident. They were very approachable and agreed to help that gal out.
They moved their PCR there and after seeing PCR coming, all the boys flew away. That gal boarded the Bus and moved away from the metro station. I hope she have never faced the same situation again in her life.
Most people afraid to approach the COPS and hence the things turn ugly sometimes. Be a responsible citizen and help Gals. It might be the turn of our own Relatives, who knows. So better to Fight against such Rowdies and live in a better and peaceful civilized World.
India is a Democratic Country but don’t take everything for granted and Respect Women because they are the Creator as well as the Destroyer.