There
has always been a phenomenal burden of shame on Women, when people talk about
women and periods. But why?
Ummm…
Blood? Is it shameful? Don’t men bleed when they get hurt? Is that shameful?
Nah...
So,
why do women have to hear quotes like- “You are not allowed to enter the temple
when you are menstruating?”
God
made Women, he invented periods.
He
does not consider men or women unequal. It’s we as a human, who have been
degrading the fairer sex on their menstruation.
Rules are attached to menstruating women. Taboos have been defined by men
and also enforced by them, but then even women play an active part in defining
these taboos. And with taboos surrounding women, I am sure there would be some
women who feel even more disgraced about their periods, then they feel natural.
With
this, women seem to have accepted this taboo that they are monthly rotten.
While women have to deal with this monthly cycle full of pain, do you think
there is anything else needed to bother them? Those mood swings, sanitary
napkins full of blood, even blood on cloth sometimes and most importantly the
pain in their stomach, back, thighs and where not?
No,
I am not mentioning all this for you to pity me or any other women for that
matter. We don’t need it anyway.
Men
have been trying hard to keep us down by all the means and this is why the
rules have been made for women, not only related to menstruation, but freedom,
our body and everything, and some women, as I already mentioned have been an
active player in this process of making men superior.
We
don’t know who made these rules that Women can’t touch religious books or visit
a temple in their menses. But we have been following it blindly, because our
parents told us.
In
an attempt to overcome my bitterness for cramps, smelly red gloop and sore
breasts and rashes, I take a pledge for not binding myself with the rules of
menses which have been imposed on me.
God
made me, and he made periods. I will not let my periods affect my religious
feelings and religious touch and I WILL MENSTRUATE WITH PRIDE…………..
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COURTESY: Ishita Kapoor
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